안녕하세요.
아이가 혼자 노는 시간이 많아질수록 부모님들의 양육 피로도가 훨씬 줄어들게 되죠.
혼자 논다는 것이 부정적으로 느껴질 수도 있는데, 혼자 놀이를 할 줄 아는 건 중요해요.
놀이를 하려면 상상력이 필요한데, 그걸 스스로 할 줄 알아야 혼자 놀이가 가능한 거니까요.
오늘 에피소드는 까이유가 혼자 노는 법을 터득하는 과정을 보여주고 있어요.
이번 편을 보고 나니 이렇게 육아를 했으면 좀 더 편했을 텐데 하는 생각이 들더라고요.
Caillou : Mommy, Mommy. Can I have some juice? Do you want to play with me, Mommy?
Mom: Shhh, Caillou. I'm busy. Fourteen, fifteen...
C : Can I help you count? One, two, three, four...
M : Caillou, this is very difficult.
C : I can help you. I can help you. Sixteen. Twenty. One, two, three...
M : Oh no, Caillou. Look what you've done. Caillou, I really need to be left alone right now. I'm too busy to play. Why don't you go and find Daddy? Maybe he'll play with you.
Caillou had really wanted his Mom to play with him. Wait a minute. Maybe Daddy could play with him. But Caillou didn't know his Daddy was very busy too.
C : Daddy, Daddy. Wow. Is it broken?
Dad : Not any more. I fixed it.
D : Oh No.
C : You look just like a snowman, Daddy. Look. I'm a snowman too. Look, Daddy.
D : Caillou. I have a lot of cleaning up to do and I really need to do it alone. Why don't you go and find Grandma?
Caillou was quite sure Grandma would like to hear all about his Daddy's troubles with the washing machine.
Grandma : There's a good girl, Rosie. Close your eyes, dear. I thought she'd never get to sleep. At last.
C : Grandma, Grandma. Look at me. I'm a snowman.
G : Shhhh. Caillou. Shh. Rosie's sleeping.
C : Daddy was fixing the washing machine and all these bubbles came out all over him. There was bubbles everywhere, Grandma.
G : Caillou. Please be quiet. You'll wake up Rosie. Rosie and I really need to be left alone. Why don't you go and play with Gilbert?
C : Gilbert. You'll play with me, won't you? Maybe Mommy's finished counting.
M : I'm sorry, Caillou. I just have to be on my own right now.
C : Do you want to play with me?
M : Caillou. Come on down, honey. It's time for your snack.
Caillou was enjoying himself so much. He never even heard his Mommy calling.
M : Caillou. Are you all right?
D : We were a bit worried about you, being here all alone. What are you doing?
C : Nothing. Just playing.
혼자 못노는 아이들이 많죠.
육아 전문가 분들의 말에 따르면 너무 재미있게 놀아주게 되면 아이가 혼자 못 놀게 된다고 하더라고요.
아이가 느끼기에도 같이 노는게 훨씬 재미있으니까요.
그래서 방청객 수준으로 웃어주고, 반응해주는 게 좋다고 하네요.
- Do you want to play with me, mommy? 엄마, 나랑 같이 놀래요?
- Can I help you count? 숫자세는거 도와드릴까요?
- I really need to be left alone right now. 지금은 혼자 있고 싶은데.
- Why don't you go and find Daddy? 아빠한테 가볼래?
- I have a lot of cleaning up to do and I really need to do it alone. 청소할게 많아서 혼자 있을 시간이 필요하단다.
- Caillou was enjoying himself so much. 까이유는 혼자 즐겁게 놀고 있었답니다.
저희 아이도 아직까진 엄마 껌딱지여서 제 시간이 너무 부족하더라고요.
그래서 혼자 노는 시간을 조금씩 늘려주려고 덜 재미있게 놀아주고 있답니다.
못 믿으시겠지만 이 방법이 확실히 효과가 있어요!
혼자만의 시간이 필요하신 양육자 분들이 꼭 이 방법을 써보셨으면 좋겠네요.
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